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Ways to Enjoy Being Single After 40

Isn’t it true? Don’t we think too much about everything and stay upset for long? Most of us have an impression that getting married at a particular age is necessary because the future life will be dependent on the marriage. Many people feel that being in a relationship is better than remaining single but, it is not true. Being single can also be a different experience. Being single or getting married is partly a matter of fate and partly one’s choice. The common reasons for you being single over 40 can be; you never married, got divorced or you are widowed. Any of these reasons should not affect your future life as they are the past moments, which need to remain in the past. I understand that it makes you feel lonely at times, but you can overcome it by giving some time and then starting the same routine with a new perspective.

Tips to Enjoy Being Single After 40

Whether male or female, loneliness affects both of them equally. These are the common tips that can be adopted by both men and women to lead their single life happily after 40.

Enjoy the Freedom
Single life gives you the extreme freedom of doing whatever you like. There are no restrictions on you to follow rules and regulations while doing something new. On the other hand, when you are in a relationship, you are bound to think at least once before you do anything. There is a necessity to think about its benefits, hazards that can be caused on the part of your partner or simply, will your better half be with you or against you in your decision.

Do Things You Wanted to Do at Young Age
We are not always lucky enough to be able to do whatever we like. There are situations when we are forced to compromise between our likes and duties. If this has happened to you, this is the right time to fulfill your dreams and live life to the fullest. If you like to sing, for example, and wanted to learn, you can definitely start it up now. In fact, you can concentrate more on it without handling any other pressures.

Increase Social Contacts
The best way to do away with loneliness after 40 is becoming more and more social, meeting new people and participating in social events. You will find number of people having the same point of view as yours. You can take initiative and explore your talent in various fields. A person for example, can be good in conversational skills, or someone might be good at organizing events. Moving into a social circle will let you acknowledge your hidden talents and work on them.

Visit New Places
This is one of the best and the most common ways to enjoy being single. You can spend maximum time in enjoyment and peace at various holiday destinations. You can visit Caribbean Carnival, Cape Town Kitesurfing Holiday and Croatia Kite Cruise. These are just a few suggestions but, you can always choose your favorite locations to visit.

Believe in Friendship
When you feel lonely, you want someone to be with you, listen to you, to your thoughts and agree to them. Making friends is the best way to forget loneliness and enjoy life. You will learn to talk to strangers even if you are an introvert, but remember that you should make meaningful friendships and cherish the existing ones. Try to learn communication skills like listening to others, being polite in your address to them and expressing positive thoughts through your statements. Dating after 40 can also be a good option. Through dating, you can add some beautiful moments to your sweet memory collection.

Appreciate What You Have
We should always thank God for whatever he has given us, because we are not aware of the conditions which people around us go through. We always create fuss about our own problems but, never realize that the problems that others face are many times severe than ours. I am not at all saying that you don’t have any major problems but, when you look around, trust me, you will find people having problems greater than yours. So the point is, try to make good out of bad by changing your way of looking at things.

Try to Get Engaged
If you are willing to fall into a relationship, you can definitely look for a suitable partner. But, if you are not interested in marriage, do not force yourself because of social pressure. Remember, marriage is out of choice and not a need and I have already suggested ways to stay happy even though you are single.

To sum it up, your life is yours and it’s your right to lead it your way. Do not waste the precious time of your life contemplating on what you don’t have; rather get happiness from whatever you have.

Tips on Finding Out if Someone is Married

With the onset on online dating, meeting new and interesting people has become easier as well as a bit eerie. The reason being obvious, there is no way to guarantee if the person you’re talking to, is telling you the complete truth about themselves. This fact is not restricted to the internet alone, it has its tentacles drawn into all interpersonal relationships in today’s society. So how can you be sure that you are not being deceived, and that your love interest is not already involved with someone else?

When it comes to just dating, we all have the option of ending things, when things don’t work out. But to find yourself being an accomplice to an outright cheating, is a definite NO! Not only are these people lying to themselves through their infidelity, they are also lying to their spouses, as well as innocent and unaware people who are dating them. It’s a triangle most people dread getting involved with, but to get dragged into this loop is purely an unwanted scenario. Here are some basic tips that will help you escape from such a situation.

Is there a Way to Find Out if Someone is Married?

Ask the Dreaded Question
The most logical as well as the least painstaking option, would be to directly approach your partner and ask them if they are currently married or not. If the answers they give, still leave you in doubt, then you probably should consider taking a break, the reason being that the basic requisite is missing, which is TRUST!

Check His/Her On-line Profiles
Search online, if there ever was a public invitation or declaration of marriage involving the person you’re dating, because you might find it online. Check all popular social networking sites for your partner’s profile. You may come across old uploads about their status and other exiting events of their lives, which may give you your answers.

Check His/Her Apartment
Do your own research. The next time they take you over to their home, look out for traces of other people having recently lived there with them. Though, this may be misleading. Try checking for old photographs or voice mail, when he/she is in the shower or gone to get some provisions or is on a call in a different room. Does your partner always insist on meeting you at your place? If so, find out why you can’t go over to their place as well?

Are You Being Hidden?
Have the two of you been for movies to popular theaters, or cozy dates in crowded restaurants, cafes, and other eateries? Have you been introduced to his/her common friends? If not, you just might find yourself being hidden by your lover, so that people he/she know may not get suspicious.

Question the Patterns
Find out peculiar patterns in your relationship with this person. Are you free to call them whenever you miss them, or is there a fixed time for romance? Many cheaters, utilize their work hours and their business trips for being unfaithful, while the nights at home are dedicated for their spouse and the family.

Meet the Family
Has your lover ever bothered to introduce you to his/her family? Or is the topic sidelined, every time you bring it up? If you’ve been seeing this person for a while or close to a year, you should have met the parents by now! In case you have been introduced to them, this is the ideal time for you to approach family members and friends. It would be safer to approach family first, as the friends may be aware of what is going on and may try to mislead you.

Check Government Records On-line
Another logical approach would be to check government marriage registration records. You may either choose to check these public records by visiting the office personally or you may check the records online through various free marriage registration websites that show the status of the individual as married or divorced.

Seek Help from Private Detective/ Cops
If the situation you are in is a bit extreme, then you may try to hire a private investigator, though this is by far the most expensive option. If you suspect that they may be dangerous, then you may simply inform the police so that they can come up with their own background information, which will clear all your doubts once and for all.

All these assumptions can make you feel even more frustrated. Just listen to your inner voice, if you feel something is wrong, let go of the relationship. You will surely come across a better and a well suited person for yourself in the future.

It’s time you stopped asking yourself if the person you’re dating is being honest or not, and started to find out the truth. The only concise way to find out if someone is married is to check public records or websites that display these public marriage registration records. These records won’t lie to you no matter what the case may be.

Ways to Be Really Good Friends

‘Friendship’ is one term that has become synonymous with acquaintanceship these days, don’t you think? We tend to call everybody we know, a ‘friend’, irrespective of the fact that they actually qualify as a ‘true friend’ in our lives or not. While most of you may beg to differ, we believe that the most crucial fact that decides who will be a friend in our lives, and who will not, is that likeness, a sort of attraction that makes that person somewhat worthy of taking the effort to build a genuine friendship with, the effort that compels us to know more deeply about him/her, not for any lustful reasons, but for reasons that spell genuineness all the way through!
There is no mathematical calculation as to who we may start liking. At times it takes ages for us to develop a liking towards someone, while, on the other hand, there are times when all it takes is a look, and you instantly recognize that this person is invariably someone who would add an all new meaning to your life. The following section gives you tips on how to go about being friends with someone you like, but don’t really know that well.

Ways to be Close Friends with the Guy/Girl You Genuinely Like
We repeat, it ain’t necessary to know someone in-and-out to like them. Most people will interpret it as infatuation, but we beg to differ; that can’t be the case all the time. At times, it also happens that you end up feeling an attraction (non-sexual) towards people of the same gender, and yes, this can very well happen to straight people! Some people call it a karmic connection that instigates that pull towards an unknown person. You see them and you feel like removing this ‘stranger tag’ right away. However, things become quite complicated considering the plight of the world in which we live today. You can’t just ask anyone to be friends instantaneously because that will either make you a possible playboy or a psycho stalker. The following tips will help you take things slowly and naturally.

Initiate Some Small Talks
Why we want you to initiate a conversation is because you never know if the other person is too shy to do the same. Perhaps you see those smiles coming on from the other end, perhaps the eye contact leaves quite a positive impression. However, friendship needs talking. Period.

How would you go about it? Well, make sure you utter something that totally goes with the situation. For instance, if you see him/her with a pet most of the time, perhaps in the same park where you go for your jog, then why not walk up to the pet and cuddle it? Ask for the pet’s name first and then move on to introducing yourself―a gesture that will soon be reciprocated.

The point is, that no matter in which situation you are, make the best of it, to come up with how you’re gonna start talking to this person. Another example for the same would be this. Say you see this person coming in this local coffee shop with a friend, and this has been happening for quite some time. Most likely, he/she will have a fixed table. Try sitting on that table one day, before this person arrives. And as soon as you see the disappointment in his/her face of not seeing the table vacant, acknowledge his/her presence and get up from the table, telling this person that you sat there because no other tables were vacant at the time. Your politeness and thoughtfulness will be reciprocated for sure. Introduce yourself, say some nice things about the place, their food, the music? Take things forward from that point on.

Build on the Commonalities
Building on common grounds always helps define the intensity of a budding relationship. To move on from basic small talks, to actually have some interesting meaningful conversations, you need to ask some questions. “What do you do? What are your hobbies? You seem as if you’re really into pets/coffee/music?” Don’t be a cop interrogating a suspect. Smile, loosen up, relax yourself. Talk about your likes and interest, but do more of listening and remembering than talking about yourself.

Also, don’t be disheartened if you two share nothing in common. Many times, it becomes all the more interesting when there are many differences! Yes, we mean it. Imagine if he/she is into adventure sports, something you’ve always wanted to try but never did. Or, if you being a writer helps him/her connect with literature and intellect, something he/she doesn’t get to discuss with anyone else! If tackled with open-mindedness, differences may also bring people together. Exchange numbers and plan on meeting again, perhaps on the next weekend?

Introduce Him/Her to Your Common Friends
Like we said, if you two have met each other in a public place, there are chances that both of you would be accompanied by friends. If that is the case, introduce him/her to your friends. Otherwise, as you start building this newly-found friendship on some great conversations and meetings, plan out a day where you invite him/her on a hangout with your close friends. You can also invite his/her close friends to make him/her feel more comfortable. However, do this at a point when you feel that this person has become comfortable with you. Make sure you include these words, “Only if you’re okay with it.”

Make Some Adventurous Plans Together
We’re sure that by this point of time, you two would have figured out if you guys actually click with each other, or it’s just become one of those stretchy relationships. What we’re trying to say is that, if your liking is still intact, and somewhat reciprocated, then make sure you add to these moments to make the friendship all the more stronger.

What can you do? Well, if both of you happen to be big foodies, then invite him/her to this awesome place having a great food challenge. Or, if nature’s photography is what he/she likes, take him/her to the suburbs or the countryside, or at any particular spot where this passion of theirs can be lived to the fullest. After all, friendship is all about caring for the other person, right?

Be Available for Him/Her as Much as Possible
The one thing that defines true friendship is the unconditional presence of it. You needn’t talk or meet everyday, but the occasional “What’s up” is enough to feel that you have a friend who’s there. Invariably, it is these small sweet nothings that make you realize who will be there at the time of need and who wouldn’t. Build on this aspect, and be as emotionally and/or physically available as possible for this person. Don’t make it look like your life revolves around him/her, but never let a call or a message go unanswered, or acknowledged.

The only exception to this rule is if you sense that you’re being taken for granted. Remember, it is not true friendship when you’re treated as nothing more than a backup. If you feel that your availability is really needed and valued by this person, only then should this rule be applied.

Be a Source of Positivity in His/Her Life
With so much of negativity around, where friends backstab, partners cheat, acquaintances try to bring you down, and family members seem too busy to be around, you be a source of positivity to this person. Help him/her see things from your positive point of view. If he/she tends to focus on the thorns of the rose, tell him/her how they are important to protect the beauty of the rose. Rose being symbolic of life in this example.

Likewise, if he/she has certain fears, insecurities, or preconceived notions about life, make sure that you help him/her focus on the reasons why he/she is so likable, why life is so beautiful, and why you became friends with this person in the first place. Positivity has an attraction stronger than any other attraction in the world, and the best part is, it stays forever.

Make Sure You’re Not Forcing Your Friendship on Him/Her
Having discussed all the aforementioned points, always remember that in all these steps, you mustn’t come off as someone who is trying to force his/her friendship on the other person, while the other person isn’t so much interested. Always pay attention to the body language of this prospect. If it is evident from his/her behavior that this person is equally into being friends with you, great. If that fails to be the case, then ensure that you take a back seat, and let the other person set course of what lies ahead.

For most people, the thought process behind being friends with the one they like is to finally form a romantic relationship with them. It’s quite a bummer when you find out that this guy/girl already has a girlfriend/boyfriend. However, we think that friendship is far beyond the whole point of them being single or committed. After all, there are many in a relationship who still need the company of a true, genuine friend with whom they can share their inner thoughts, especially the ups and downs of their relationships. And you never know if your genuineness with this person, makes him/her realize that perhaps he/she is with the wrong person at the end of it all! No, we’re not trying to lift your spirits high. All we’re trying to say is that real friendship has its way of rewarding you in surprising ways. The main thing is to keep it real. All the best.

Tips to kick Start online dating

Well, research and sound knowledge of the person is necessary while dating. It is a fact that dating can bring in a lot of excitement, adventure, and fun, but to stay safe and smart it is important to trust only reputed dating sites.

Dating does bring in a lot of endeavors like increasing the social circle and getting to know each other in much better manner. If you are the person looking for long term commitments than dating girls in Delhi through the reputed online site is a much reliable option. The best part of the sites is without wandering pillar to post you can go through the different profile. In Delhi, the team of professionals does ultimately take care of your confidentiality and only after making your prior authentication patterns shared. Without any hidden charges, there are ample of chat options that help you to know compatibility. The registration too is free and convenient.

Even if you are beginner and willing to start online dating, Chating, Friendship, Dating, matrimonial, here are some crucial tips that you can follow while dating online:-

1)     Genuinely complementing: – Once you start liking the profile or profile picture do complement. Remember to be sincere with your compliment, right things should be appreciated.

2)    Respect future goals: – The dreams and ambitions of girls have changed a lot. The modern goals don’t wish only to confine to four walls of the home, but the desire to fly higher. To avoid any future miscommunication, do discuss future goals while dating.

3)    Give each other a chance to respond and speak: – Too much of dominating conversation could also be boring, do patiently wait for the reply and considered opposite gender response as well.

4)    Don’t compare: – Every individual is born with the different trait and identity. Comparing others can lower self-esteem, therefore, do not compare. Do mention and let the person know your skills and talent. Remember to stay optimistic about your future goals.

5)    Don’t barge each other with too many questions: – In the initial conversation, try to avoid asking too many questions. If you are genuinely interested in the profile, try to keep something for the next meeting and listen to their roles, challenges and scope of responsibilities.

Your key to fruitful and blissful relationships can be online dating webside, start now to get the prosperous future tomorrow with your soul mate!

Ways to begin With Online dating services

For anyone new at all to online online dating, it is crucial to do the persistence to discover a safe along with relevant online dating site even though also delivering the well crafted profile. Here are generally several critical steps to begin with online dating services:

Identify a new preferred online dating service

The net dating services are in his or her thousands using sites needing to attract a person’s eye of users coming from all interests. Before signing up to a particular site it is very important figure out what you look for and have to have. Plus, there exists the option to use sometimes paid as well as free solutions. But, it normally benefits to work with about the most sites as part of your niche to help you increase your change involving attracting a new potential lover.

Use a new safe along with reputable assistance

Once you’ve got compiled a shorter list of the extremely promising online dating services always give sites a even more check to make certain your data are going to be kept risk-free. Use on-line reviews as well as personal recommendations to discover the perfect internet site before entering your personal data.

Write the ideal profile

The most difficult aspects of using an online dating services service can be creating your charming account that evidently highlights your current qualities. Even however this element is time-consuming it is important to find right. A account should try and interest, join, and take a smile on the face in the reader. Any account written using style along with panache is certain to assist the result rate, while those people profiles prepared with minor effort are unlikely to attract the desired attention.

Make changes to raise response charge

Even if a great deal of effort was place into creating your profile, there isn’t a guarantee who’s will bring the desired success. For your profile this is not able for you to attract the desired responds there are lots of steps which could quickly help the response charge. A straightforward technique is to generate a change inside profile photograph. First impacts are important, so always include the up-to-date along with eye-catching photograph. A unique, unusual, or exciting picture is certain to help receive the best result.

Have a talk with a probable date ahead of meeting

To be able to chat which has a potential lover before getting together with face-to-face could increase the prospect of a potential date being easier. Any electronic mail communication can be one-dimensional and can make it difficult to fully appreciate what the opposite party is a lot like. By transferring contact to your telephone chat, it may be possible to determine things similar to their transmission style, whether they listen to you personally talk, and is also their speech pleasant. A 20 instant phone conversation is often enough time to discover more about a probable date.